tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4029590892785316279.post2902392446069369593..comments2023-11-02T06:42:23.952-04:00Comments on WORTH a million: Choosing him every dayRichard D. Worthhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16591093104884750866noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4029590892785316279.post-22718573529404410822008-04-27T23:23:00.000-04:002008-04-27T23:23:00.000-04:00egdnsIt's OK. Everything is going to be fine.egdnsIt's OK. Everything is going to be fine.Farmer Joehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05514822392008437680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4029590892785316279.post-22610746036462885842008-04-23T23:51:00.000-04:002008-04-23T23:51:00.000-04:00Hi, I just wanted to pop in and say thankyou for y...Hi, I just wanted to pop in and say thankyou for your sweet comment over in Ric-Rac. I don't sell many things yet - just my dollies on Etsy. I hope you pop back soon.<BR/>I can't begin to comment on this post except that I agree about having some girlfriends, who also "get" it.Jodiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02924653077212971448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4029590892785316279.post-29476053506041796402008-04-23T18:52:00.000-04:002008-04-23T18:52:00.000-04:00Sometimes when I think my husband doesn't understa...Sometimes when I think my husband doesn't understand me or it too different from me, I think, "Well, who would understand me more/get this joke/whatever?" And really there's not anyone else who would.<BR/><BR/>Also I think it's good to remember that it's really not your husband's job to make sure your needs are met. I mean, the relationship would atrophy if he never did anything for you, but you have to keep in mind that your happiness is your responsibility.<BR/><BR/>("You" meaning anyone, not YOU Nancy.)angela michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05924481702319424964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4029590892785316279.post-83760908331730823532008-04-22T18:23:00.000-04:002008-04-22T18:23:00.000-04:00I think your response was right on. Life is not go...I think your response was right on. Life is not going to be always fun. I think that's why so many people get divorced--or just don't get married to begin with: they're only in the relationship while it's fun and then they want to leave it when life becomes life again. I also think she needs to have a serious talk with her husband before she goes off to girlfriends and strangers--he probably doesn't realize how she feels. I find my husband understands more than I realize--even though he's gone 14 hours of the day. And, you're right, I choose to stay home by myself all day and he chooses to go to work. Neither is easy to do. I think you are right that we all need some outlet that we enjoy.As for the difference in parenting style, I think since she's the one taking care of the kids, she should have the say (i.e., medicines or whatnot) but the husband should be able to make his case too.Rebecca Reidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06062252252301802298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4029590892785316279.post-12138019582599967282008-04-22T14:08:00.000-04:002008-04-22T14:08:00.000-04:00Nancy,Well responded, well written, VERY well advi...Nancy,<BR/><BR/>Well responded, well written, VERY well advised! I LOVE and (sincerely) respect your point of view and the way you presented the facts to this woman (and the rest of us)... Thanks, a lot!<BR/><BR/>And Amen to Graffiti's thoughts!Clydehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09092749514855578377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4029590892785316279.post-13846181324964105482008-04-22T13:04:00.000-04:002008-04-22T13:04:00.000-04:00I sometimes have the same problem where my man res...I sometimes have the same problem where my man responds to the situation before responding to me. I think it is important to remember that everyone looks at situations different. some people are natural problem solvers, some people are more in tune with others emotions, some people are unaware that there is another way to handle things outside of how they were raised. when all is said and done, 2 things for that woman - 1: women need women. we relate to each other, be us mothers or not. some how we just relate. 2: show charity (suffers long, kind, seeks not her own, is not easily provoked). when we show love as an action word, it, more often than not, is returned.ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12253015034060541641noreply@blogger.com